Thanks for checking in guys. Like I said, this topic got blown way out of proportion. Everyone is never going to agree with everything 100% in any of our individual lives. I respect your opinions and always have. It's all good. Things between my W and I really are better than they have ever been right now. I am focused on that, and keeping it that way.

FYI Mach... I hear ya! I have my phone set to ding me once a month to remind me to do something out of the ordinary to show or communicate to my W that I love her. This month it was just a card letting her know that I love her and that I appreciate her. This practice has worked WONDERS.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce