AT, we saw each other on FB and had a quick chat about meeting on FB when we were just in the same house. She then told me she had a "chat" appointment with her sister who lives in a nearby country. Nothing much.
Hmmm...
Do you know one of the best moves I made as far as helping myself along the "Detachment" route?
Stopping the FB train when it came to my W.
I stopped checking in on her, her friends etc... I went so far as to hide her from my timeline... And although she's since "Defriended" me, I don't miss a thing about it.
I look at it this way: If she wanted me to know what was going on in her life... She'd tell me. Or she'd share it with me directly in SOME way...
Have you thought about hiding her from your timeline? Reading back through your thread, there have been quite a few posts by W that have sent you into a tizzy... with no positive results on the other side... Maybe it's time to take a step...