great observation Mach1

maybe that is what I was responding to...

I don't know...I guess I never would have put it into a situation where my boss had to chose because I would have made the choice for them

That is what being an adult means

I made the bad decision by having an affair with a co-worker and now my spouse doesn't feel comfortable with me working with them so the decision rests with me to leave

(democrats all the way *fistpumping*)