Hi, anyhope, you always seemed like a strong person, but now you seem even stronger, and with something more. Your husband didn't take into account that while he was out sowing his wild oats, you would not be sitting around right where he left you. You were out growing a tougher skin, and living your own life. It's just his own tough luck that when he decided you were good enough after all, you had decided HE might just not be good enough for you. And, someone like him, who constantly wavers with ow and you, isn't good enough for you, you do deserve better. Dang skunk.
So, what do you do in Canada when it is so cold? Is it snowing there? Too bad about your car going belly up just when you need a vacation.