Originally Posted By: MissAgnes
Sunny,
Sometimes, OK, most of the time you learn more from your failures than your successes.
It is not something I'm proud of, but I have snooped, too, a while back and H found out because I told him. I told him that I was so upset about him making a fool of me, that I ended up making a fool of myself. Talk about embarrassment. I also told him I wouldn't do it again because it wasn't "me" to be jealous. I chalk it up to a lesson in humility.
It may have been a big DB mistake, but the peace I have knowing that my conscience is clear is priceless.
Just remember, your snooping won't change her behavior. And it is not in your best interest because it makes you miserable.



Here is the whole convo
Her: Hey whats up with the gas

Him: just got a call gas lines low will be better after 12 though you can hang here if you want

Her: Well I am so bored, bored, bored.

Him: U tease !!! LOL might be interest

Her: smile

Him: I hope you are erasing these texts and this is your phone !!! If that is the case then lets go !!!

Her: You want me to come over now.

Him: Cum On

Her: Okay

1 – she showered late at night and shaved her legs – that is not snooping she did it with me there.

2- she sent text after text with the sound on I could easily hear that she was texting

3 – she left the house while my BR light was still on so she knew I was up

4 – she was there for somewhere between 20 and 40 minutes – before she left - she came back in the house before she left for gas and saw me at the computer when she came in.

So I just checked her phone for details this morning but it wasn’t like she didn’t give me reason to wonder.

I don’t know why she hasn’t filed yet – is she trying to drive me out of the house – I am at the end of my patience.

BTW I left for work and made a right turn this morning I was supposed to go straight – it took all of 55 seconds for me to make a u-turn and I come back up the block and he is outside the house talking to her – WOW that was fast !!! – she must have texted him before she came out to move her car so I could pull out.

Then I go ˝ mile and I realize I forgot my wallet so I turn around again – he is there talking to her – his Fiance is outside too – he asked “How are you” I said fine but I gave him a look like I know what you and my wife up to you A$$HOLE – he looked shaken – I just had a big smile on my face - I said how are you – he said fine just running around – I go to get my wallet come out tell my wife that my son who she left unattended is in the bathroom – she goes really – I said yes – buttface was getting into his car – I hate my life right now !!!


If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it.
I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!