I am 8 months into a separation with my H. I just consulted with a divorce attorney (only to discuss my rights and concerns) and wonder if you guys think I should tell H. He seems content to cake eat while my life is in limbo. Divorce has never been an option for me and I don't think I would ever actually file, I just wonder if you think I might need to rattle his chain a little. I have alway been the submissive wife and I think this would definitely get his attention. What do you think?
