Hey NG- My w just filed for divorce and I was notified last week as well. She has been out of the marital home for 15 months and we had been working on a separation agreement which she initially offered 50/50 custody and was giving me the house.
She is now filing for full custody and she wants the house.
My wife left me a message last night and was crying and told me she had been crying all night and wanted to let me know as our kids were upset about it. She did not tell me why.
My first instinct was to call her to see what was wrong and to see if there is anything I can do but I refrained. She has done so much damage and I have no trust towards her. She is going to have to get through this on her own as am I.
My advice is to be careful and not believe much if anything of what you hear from her. She is responsible for her actions and how she feels so try not to take on any of that burden and keep the focus on you.
