T, That is exactly why we discourage new relationships while still married and the mlcer is out on the lam. You end up w/a third party and more than likely that person will be hurt in the process.
Hang in there. You'll need Spidey's gloves for sure!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
