Gottman's predictors are criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling (withdrawal). We are doomed if our patterns don't change ASAP. We have all of these present in spades.

Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page