I remember so well an article by MWD, entitled..... "Where Were You When I Needed You?"
The bottom line of that article, was, Right By Your Side.
I had previously been living that concept so she would finally realize that fact, even though that may have been pursuit.
I don't know the placement of those grey lines so often. I only wanted to do the Right Things for my W. That hasn't worked.
Nothing can ever work until or IF she deals with her alcohol addiction. Stinking Thinking started when she relapsed and now she has her heals dug in.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012