Yes, it took me much of the day to read your entire sitch, but it was a worthwhile read for perspective.
I knew in my gut and mind what Not to do, but my emotional heart still cares and thats why i was wondering about shoeing her compassion about her being sick again. She is very prone to allergies and sinus drippage that becomes worse like this.
In the past, i would have gone out and bought whatever she needed like a humidifier and relief meds.
I didn't call or offer to do anything, But i still wanted to.
I'm not detached enough yet, but i am getting better. I knew i shouldn't and i listened to myself.
Once again, thank you So Much for checking in with me. I was wondering if i screwed up so long that more vetted members thought my sitch or goals were a cause not worth responding to, but you came through, and i sincerely appreciate it.
I just got done reading the entire sitch by AnotherStander. I figure i can learn from real life experiences and timelines.
I am becoming more optimistic about Me though recently, and that is a good thing.
Ed
Me, 55 W, 36 T, 10 yrs S-9 M, 8 yrs 1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa 2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa W, AA relapse early 2009-Current W moved out 2-16-2012 New OM 5-2012