Cath care is pretty simple! You can check out videos on YouTube if you are concerned.Sounds like things are going well. Remember to go slowly. Also, if you are thinking things are really progressing, you need to think about what H will need to do for you to be able to get beyond the EA/PA. Better to be prepared now. In my previous experience, H sort of felt me out first then once he had really made up his mind, it really was made up. He did everything and then some and then told me. Maybe he is different though. Sounds like he is sort of feeling things out though.