I just got a text message from our cell phone provider about the payment not being made and service will be interrupted. He has this all in his name and locked up right with a password to even be able to discuss it with the company. He did this so I couldn't see his calls and texts to ow. This is the only bill he has been paying and that was so he could talk to her. All of our kids and my phone is on this plan. I text him that I had been contacted by Verizon and he text back that e paid it last week. But he would call and check on it. I don't like him being in charge of this so I am thinking of getting my own account started and getting the kids and I new phones. I think I made a mistake bc I text him that I didn't want h controlling out cell phones meaning the kids and mine and that I was going to open my own account. He replied to me that I should just add myself and the kids to my bf account. I don't know why he is on this kick. I ignored that and just received a text back that wasn't very nice. It just said " F you Lisa all you want to do is mess up everything and make everyone's life miserable karma will get you *itch."

I know this shouldn't hurt but I don't understand what I did. I am now feeling hurt bc I have come so far since he left and worked hard to get bills caught up and everything switched into my name bc he was threatening to turn off power and water

How do I handle this?


Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12