Next Step, Moving On

[dorightman]

Hi Regretful, I don't think I suffer from depression, I do have depressed feelings sometimes, but not in a major way. My w is quite verbal and if I listen well, I should be able to speak her "love language".
I was told that woman are more sensitive then men when it comes to volume level and intensity of sound, so I really have to be aware of that when I converse with my w. I tend to get very intense and loud when my emotions kick in. I'am not violent, but I have had moments of dealing rage.
Neither of us had or is having an affair. This is about my w grieving our past relationship and me growing stronger.
Last night we spoke and ended on a softer note, so I'am reconsidering my move out today. I'll try again to give her more space and not react emotionally to anything she says or does and Ill try to be more patient and wait it out,
It's a great challenge!