I'm not gonna speak for anyone here, yet I will say this...
Throughout your entire ordeal, you admitted that this in some way, was about "winning" with the whole sitch....
When you started just living your life, and quit worrying about winning or losing, things turned around for you first, and eventually for your marriage...
And I think that you should keep that in mind when you enjoy the demise of the Tidy Bowl Man....
Just make sure that it isn't about winning now...
There are more important things to worry about.
What are you going to do today, out of what is normal life, to SHOW her that she is special to you ??
