In the success stories at the end of DR there is one where the H writes that he told his W that he was not done until she walked out the door and had her read DR.

What I'm wondering is how this doesn't violate DB and the DB rules listed on the forum?

My SO had already felt like I didn't want her around, like I was trying to get her to move out. If I were to sit down with her and tell her that I know things have gotten bad and I'm not giving up on her, that I'll be around until she walks out the door, could it be helpful? I don't mean to say it some clingy crying way but in a way where I assure her that I'm not giving up on her just b/c we are having trouble.

“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln