I would describe the last few days as neutral at best. No fighting or yelling. No outward signs of anger unleashed at me. All to the positive. However, no R talks either which could be good or bad at the moment. Having not been through this before, I am guessing the less R talk brought up by her right now the better considering most of them are just crazy uncorking sessions for her. Happy to listen and validate, but clear she has rewritten history in her head at the moment when we do discuss R.

Continue to GAL and focus on the kids.

Still looking for good clues for 180's and still trying to decipher WAS vs MLC.

Can a W be both?


W: 40
Me: 44
M: 12 years
Together: 14
Three children (S-4, D-3, S-1)
EA started in April, discovered in 07/12
ILYBNILWY: 07/12
MC Started: 09/12
Patience Tested: 1,245,963 times since 07/12