Confused at Where I am - Part 2

[labug]

'you have been trying for 3 weeks, I was trying for 3 years' speech.

Is this true? If so, it will be a long haul. Accuray wrote a great post about affairs on Sweetbriar's thread yesterday. It might be helpful for you.

Your spending a lot of energy focusing on them. It really doesn't matter why they are doing what they are doing or how old they are, each ifs filling a need for the other.

Get busy, GAL. Don't have convos with her unless you have to. As long as she is active in the affair she doesn't want to hear from you. You'll just irritate her.

This is tough an yo are very early on, use this time to gather your power, improve yourself.