Thanks NG. I'm getting ready for more superhero efforts on the roof today.

I did call P back the other night. We had a long chat. I might technically have ended it first, but mostly I think I was just blurting out one thing after another that I was eager to tell her. I do need to tone it down a bit...

We've had some emails back and forth about the winter plans. A few days ago there was the email entitled "health plan". Ugh. (I'm on her plan...) After explaining that this is the time period when she can add or drop people, etc., she says she's inclined to leave it as it is. What do I think?

I told her it's advantageous to me and I appreciate it. And I don't want her to do it if she'd rather not, for any reason. She responded "Let's just continue the health plan as is."

That was all interesting. Then last night I got an email from her reporting an unusual bird sighting. More interesting. The first move in getting us together originally was me emailing her with an unusual bird sighting. There have only been a handful of non-logistical contacts from her since she left in the spring. And they tend to happen right after I've seen her. I should not be surprised if they drop off as she transitions more to her life there.

Okay, time to get off the rollercoaster and onto the roof!


Me - 54
P - 59
Together 5 yrs
She left 4/2012