The reason I stay is because I want to give us a real chance to fix the situation. We haven't been to proper MC, we've been dicking around and not dealing with any of it.
Sounds very familiar.
Has your husband shown in the past that he can "look inside", self-reflect? Does he apologize when he's wrong? Does he or did he in the past let you know when you were crossing his boundaries?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss