Dealing with the reality of separation

[PeteWyo]

So learned through my in-laws that the OM and my W are definitely in a R. I am taking it bad. I know that nothing has really changed and I assumed that was the case anyway. But some small part of me had hoped that she was on her own and just needed space to figure out her feelings. I know now that is not the case. I guess knowing is better than wondering and hoping. I can't deal with any more false hope. Last of her things will be moved out today. Time to accept reality I guess and move on.