Hardest thing in the world at the moment is to not ask her whats going on with the other man.
I realize I am in no position to ask her to stop seeing or communicating with him and that makes it twice as difficult to be under the same roof as her. It feels like I am going against my own values and beliefs.
Im not even sure that they are seeing each other at the moment after me finding out. I still strongly suspect that this 55 year old guy is simply having a MLC and has no intention of leaving his wife of 22 years.
She is so switched off from me at the moment that even basic conversation is difficult. Does anyone have some tips on how to get around this tension? I'm trying very hard but it feels like I am walking on eggshells to a certain extent.
Im still keeping up with my 180's. In our weekend from hell she gave me the 'you have been trying for 3 weeks, I was trying for 3 years' speech.
