At first I thought "wait, how could I have been the one baiting when she was the one obviously wanting to talk while I was trying to leave"

But I see how my responses to her Q's turned the conv the wrong way(guess that's my baiting).

I need to get better at letting these things slide, and focusing on the things that are relevant now(S).
This is something I need to work more on. Thanks!

Together for 8,5 years.
S2
Interest in OM.
She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out.
No signs of OM, not digging.
Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.