H is out of town for the next 48 hours and I'm grateful for the break. Going to try to be as dark as possible during that time.

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I don't have as much experience as a lot of the folks here, but it seems to me your sitch is moving to a new phase where you're going to have to make some changes and be strong, much like when you moved back into the house.


Absolutely. This thing with OW has enabled me to detach and so I'm not so worried about doing something that will upset H or drive him further away. It is time to get down to business.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page