True trusting and cadet have pretty much sumed it up. The first thing you need to do is to set some boundaries. You need to decided which ones. As Cadet said you need to detach and GAL, continue to read DR and post here on this thread as often as you need to. You will be okay.
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths