Grateful, I feel you, but my marriage has been over for years. I have been in denial. I think for my sitch, there will not be any healing until we truly separate, and for my own sanity and healing, I may need to move on to get my strength back. After I heal, I will be a better dad, and hopefully the space and time apart will heal my w. We are both so stuck and there has been no movement or relief in a long time. It has effected our physical and mental health and our kids. I just don't see any other solution. I will try to keep DBing and hopefully we will be able to reconcile down the road, who knows? Not sure how to handle the money part yet, but meeting with a lawyer tomorrow.


Me:46 W:40
M:10 T:17
D:9 S:6
BD:12/11
ILYBINILWY:8/12
Served 2/13
I moved out 2/13
I moved back 6/13
W moved out 9/13