Wow snodderly that's really interesting.

Perhaps we need more details in replay. I thought replay was just basically blowing money and doing new women.... which XH has done. Now each MLCer can have levels of severity for replay can't they? Like on a scale fom 1 - 10 sort of thing?

LOL.. XH has also dyed his hair within the last few months. A year and a half ago when he left he lost so much weight his pants nearly fell off, and he looked like CRAP.He acted manic. He text me constantly, one minute being nice and friendly, the next just absolutely off his rocker with venom and spew. Looked like he aged 10 years in 2 months, dark circles, and mean as a stepped on snake. Would have nightmares and text me cause he was scared. Was drinking and taking sleeping pills to just get to sleep. Before he left he would just sit and stare at the wall and not talk or eat. He was sweaty and clammy, and would complain his heart was racing. He couldn't sleep but 3 or 4 hours a night.

Now he's gained all that weight back and looks healthier. He doesn't have the funds to go hog wild so he sits at home with OW playing computer games all day. He's acting very nice for now.....

Honestly I really can't tell if Xh just has a personality disorder or if it's MLC at this point. Or is MLC a temporary personality disorder in itself? Or if he was just a WAH and all that freaking insanity was him trying to tell me the TRUTH about he and OW because she threatned to do it if he didn't, so he made up lies.

Heather it's ok to search for answers. Heck Im still searching for them at times, but it's not long before Im struck with the disappointing facts of reality as I know it.

Im still searching for answers because I KNOW I didn't get the full story of XH and OW. It's totally normal to try and get answers because if we had just a few good ones, maybe we could just rest a bit and relax.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.