Now that contact seems almost everyday, my new short term goals need to be updated...
She will show interest in what I'm doing She will say hello when she sees me and goodbye when I leave She will have any time of physical contact with me She will continue pursuing dinner with me
Obviously this will change if I give her the letter.
Let your goals dictate your actions, not your actions dictate your goals. When you are accepting advice from others, make sure they are responding to what your goals are, not just giving you advice about what they think you should do.
