No, its hard to get context sometimes on a computer screen... And I know success is even better. I will say that detaching while she is away is even EASIER than when she is home.. I think this is because we don't bump into each other 3-4 times a day. I am not saying I want a separation but id it comes to that it would definitely be easier to detach.
I will not be calling W for the rest of her retreat. She initiated contact with me last night which leads me to believe that when she wants to talk she will talk and that she does have those feelings of "I want to call him and hear his voice".
Sandi, I am telling you right now you are a major part of the small wins I have had already... Don't give up on me yet I will get there..
Me - 30 W - 28 M 4 t 6 ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011 Band-aid Jan 11' ILYBINILWY #2 7/28/12