I guess it can go either way. I have seen where the children do not hold the anger because the cheater worked hard at repairing that relationship between them and the children.

I do believe that the children have a right to know as those choices affected their lives in a negative way. Its their choice to make their own minds on that relationship afterwards.

I do understand your point of view KML.

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