You want him to wake up one morning and look in the mirror and say "wtf have I done to my life, wife and kids and how do I fix it?" Then on the other hand you think "how can I ever be with this man ever again" You feel weak emotionly and spirtualy for not being able to say f**k you and f**k her too, and tell her shes welcome to your leftovers. Well at least thats how I feel LOL
Sorry for the language.
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending