yea. You just came out of that meeting and you baited her into an Our Relationship talk.
You gotta keep away from those conversations. It comes across as perusing and weak.
You should be concentrating on building respect from her eyes. This is done through consistent communication on Son. Any legal or financial info you answer right away. Or answer you will get the info , or that you will think about it and get back on this date.
You do not start up OR talks. Remember she left.
If you catch yourself starting one or in one. Say that you would like to think these thoughts over and change the topic.
You both need to build a comfortable and safe environment where you both can talk about Son, finances, and important life events knowing it is not going to turn into an OR talk.
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