Thanks everyone on suggestions re tires - I called several tire places and all of them said the same thing. So, I went to where my mechanic goes, and they gave me a good price. The other tires were wearing down anyway. I live in a small city, and places like Costco would have to order in the type of tire I need ... about 2 weeks. Can't go on my spare tire for that long. Anyway, they weren't much cheaper.
Thanks Wii for your comments. I am going to have to be tough, and that's not my style unless absolutely necessary. I will follow my lawyer's advice. I was just thinking while I was slowly driving to the next town to have tires changed, that my H could not have had the career he has now if I wasn't there to take care of home and children. I supported him, backed him up. The only other way was for him not to have had a family to begin with. I was, in essence, a single mother for a lot of years. Sometimes, in a strange city. Luckily, I'm pretty tough, and brave (when looking back, I see that now).
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim