MWD suggests that how you feel follows how you act, so if you act in a loving manner you will feel loving feelings. If you act happy eventually you will feel happy. The acting is a force of will and is a decision the feelings are not. Therefore if H puppets the behaviors you need they will become habit and translate into feelings. When you get what you want you will feel better about him and provide positive reinforcement which will further solidify his behaviors and feelings, that's the theory anyway -- fake it until you make it.

WRT taking S to school, you didn't make it clear up front what time you needed H to leave for his behavior to be helpful. You can clarify that.

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015