Sunny and Snodderly - I won't do the freak out method I suggested earlier. I too know it won't work but it might feel good for a minute to scream and lose my mind.
"" this is so important but the longer I go through this MLC with my wife I realize this is not the reason this happened. This behavior comes from many unresolved issues from adolescence.""
I know it took me months and months to realize that this wasn't my fault. Thanks for your reminders of patience and what vows mean but I think I will be an example of some one who made through enact but without a H. ( I am not saying that to be glum.)
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13