Sunny and Snodderly - I won't do the freak out method I suggested earlier. I too know it won't work but it might feel good for a minute to scream and lose my mind.

"" this is so important but the longer I go through this MLC with my wife I realize this is not the reason this happened. This behavior comes from many unresolved issues from adolescence.""

I know it took me months and months to realize that this wasn't my fault. Thanks for your reminders of patience and what vows mean but I think I will be an example of some one who made through enact but without a H. ( I am not saying that to be glum.)


----
M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13