Asked my H, sorry, I was speaking as if you had read my thread. Guess not. If you need to know, ask but be prepared for whatever the answer might be.

I'm just throwing out things for you to think about, didn't mean to be confrontational.

Most likely I'm projecting a bit.

google reclaimed baggage text reliant-again, just info.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss