Maybe he's just being nice, like my H. Doesn't want to hurt your feelings, thinks you should "get it" by his non-contact.

That may not be the case with him but it's definitely a possibility.

I needed to know so I asked.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss