I am constantly trying to make progress... I was under the impression that I should let her have her space this weekend and let her communicate with me when she is ready... I don't do that as much at home anymore.
Working hard toward progress is admirable. Success if even better.
Giving her space and waiting for her to initiate communication is exactly what you need to do. That's an important part of DBing. I don't remember telling you to do the opposite.
I suppose I'm the one who is having problems communicating to you about the WAW.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
