I think this may be bomb drop number two. She's been visiting twice a week saying she is waiting for me to ask her questions. Since I'm DB'ing, I haven't prompted R talk but she is now forcing the issue, has written me a "letter" about her feelings and wants to meet about it (hasn't given me the letter yet). She seems anxious to get it off of her chest and I'm sure it will be about how much she loves the OM and how she wants a D (which she hasn't said). She'll probably be here in 45 minutes...
How do I approach this? Validate her feelings, right? Define boundaries? What else?
I know I'm not going to agree to D and I'm not willing to concede to being "best friends" if a D were to happen. _____________________________ Me:39 WAW:38, M:9 T:19, No Kids EA:9/24, S:9/24 EA on hold?, MC 9/30-now
