Thread Number 3 Old Thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2293340#Post2293340 Is it soooooo sick that I'm not ready to say this is over yet!? Why can't I just move on? I mainly want to serve him papers to make him hurt--not that it would. Part of me still clings to that possibility that he may come round and see what's he's done and be the guy I thought he was. Can You Say "Stuuuu-pid and Naive?" Heather
Whyyyy I will tell you - you have been with him for over 20 years and it's only been 6 months that this is going on - that's why -- he still is that guy - but his late teen years have re-emerged -- that's whats going on - this is a VERY LONG PROCESS - no guick fixes - you didn't break him - you can't fix him.
If you really want to piss him off completely detach - ignore him -- you serving him to try and shock him is going to do you no good !!!
YOU WANT TO SAVE YOU'RE MARRAIGE - that is the right thing to do - for better or for worse - nothing worth having is easy !!
Of course I am writing this to myself to cuz I feel the same way you do.
Bottom line is you have to WAIT ON THE LORD - GIVE IT OVER TO HIM -- pray for wisdom and direction then wait till you are sure what to do - when you are you will know and have no doubts either way I think you should wait till you get there.
Relax and start doing FUN things YOU like to do !!!
Hang on !!
Sunny
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
