Piecing - Round 1

[Denver_2010]

I think that this OM was less preditor than you make him out to be

sure

he started dating your wife...but she said your marriage was over

I am not saying these things to get you bent out of shape at your wife...I DO believe she is sorry for what she did and does want to make amends

I think that the OM is an ass but also was pretty betrayed by your wife and it [censored] pretty badly for him that his livlihood needs to be stripped away as well

it is too bad they both couldn't just be adult enough to work together or...if not, she should have left the company (in my opinion) and not put her boss in that situation.

if she can't handle working with him or you can't handle her working with him then it is time for her to leave

and

as someone who works with restraining orders etc....he is not at the restraining order point (just a heads up)

much love to you Denver

Unless we're going to do it off of this board, I'm done quibbling with you Harrier. It is a waste of my time. Good luck man.

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Thanks Fig. I get what you are saying. Though I still don't agree 100%. For the record, my W was willing to continue to play with him as long as I was okay with it. I am not. She went to the owner of the company and left it up to him what he wanted to do. My W and I were, and are, both okay with it if she ends up having to leave the company. The owner of the company doesn't want her to leave. That's his choice. I realize it is at the detriment of the OM. And that is where I simply don't feel any sympathy.

As for the restraining order... yeah, I work with them too with my job. I know that we are not there yet. It was merely brought up as a possibility if it continues or gets worse. I agree that we are not there yet.

Most of this conversation is much ado about nothing. I was just updating things and made a comment that wasn't really meant to cause a firestorm. It has been talked about MUCH more here on the board than it has been here at home.

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Eric and Bond -

I agree with you Eric that I should try to stay out of it. And I have. Like I said, when my W tells me about what is going on, I mostly just listen. She is handling it well IMO.

But I agree with Bond that there is always the danger that someone like OM can become obsessive and even dangerous. It really doesn't matter who it is, if he begins to pose any kind of threat, or it gets to the point where my W feels harassed, I will do what I need to. That fact really has nothing to do with it being OM or not.

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SBH - Go Dems!