If it is not court ordered. Then protect your rights as a father and get your lawyer to make sure this is corrected. ASAP.

Then do all the CYA stuff.

Get a voice activated recorder. Record all conversations with wife , her parents etc...

Document every time you are denied access. Document everything you do with your child. Document everything.

And find out your rights as a father.

This is more important that any reconciliation at this time.

If you happen to not get back together are you willing to give up access to your son over hoping that you can make your walk away wife happy for a short time?

Ponder that.

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