Yesterday there was some more of the same behavior but it's getting tough for me b/c if she really just wants to move out and has her mind set up I'd rather just know so we can part ways and stop the charade.

So, not going to try and mind-read here, when I brought in mail from a place that is for housing I asked her if she had been looking to move out. She said she hasn't been lately, that this was from awhile ago when she was scrambling to try and find a place. I asked her if she is still just up in the air about us and she said she doesn't know what to think. Asked if I was going on a date Sat and I told her no but that's part of why she didn't know what to think. I told her that if she's looking to move out ok, if there's never going to be anything between us ok, and if she's trying and just looking to see if I'm trying ok...I just hope neither of us are playing games with the other. She didn't say anything and we went about our business.

Today we are back to just being friendly to each other and I know I need to knock off asking her for reassurances. I need to focus on my goals and what will work.

“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln