The 5 Love Languages book is a good one, although I think it best to proceed with caution when trying to speak her love language right now. Look for times that she is receptive to her LL. I think I made the mistake of going overboard with it right away, and came off as sucking up. Not very attractive.
Thank you, eyesopen. I am reading this now and am only a little way into it at this point. I am hoping her LL is obvious to identify. Also, your point of pacing myself is wisely noted. I appreciate the feedback and advice.
W: 40 Me: 44 M: 12 years Together: 14 Three children (S-4, D-3, S-1) EA started in April, discovered in 07/12 ILYBNILWY: 07/12 MC Started: 09/12 Patience Tested: 1,245,963 times since 07/12