Originally Posted By: eyesopen
The 5 Love Languages book is a good one, although I think it best to proceed with caution when trying to speak her love language right now. Look for times that she is receptive to her LL. I think I made the mistake of going overboard with it right away, and came off as sucking up. Not very attractive.


Thank you, eyesopen. I am reading this now and am only a little way into it at this point. I am hoping her LL is obvious to identify. Also, your point of pacing myself is wisely noted. I appreciate the feedback and advice.


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