Think back at ANYTHING your W might have complained about that triggers an idea for a 180.
Thanks Turtlegirl. I am working hard n listening carefully and I have to tell you I may be totally hiding it from myself, but I am missing any real clues from our history. We have young children and focus heavily on them instead of ourselves, but nothing she has mentioned or complained about. I know this can be a contributing factor but I am lost at anything obvious at the moment.
I probably sound like the blind and deaf H right now, but I remain clueless.
Thank you for taking time to help me!
W: 40 Me: 44 M: 12 years Together: 14 Three children (S-4, D-3, S-1) EA started in April, discovered in 07/12 ILYBNILWY: 07/12 MC Started: 09/12 Patience Tested: 1,245,963 times since 07/12
