Absolutely keep your cool. Always try to remain calm and confident as difficult as it can be.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
I have a feeling the fantasy bubble might have burst a little last night, as from what I can gather this guy wont leave his wife for her, hence the anger with him knowing that I could blow this wide open at any moment.
Just need to keep my cool here right?
They almost never do leave their W when caught cheating. You were lucky your W's EA was not with a single guy.
If this did end the fantasy, she will now be mourning the loss of love she almost had, and may go into depression. Stay calm, give her space but be there for her.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
By the way, after the horrible weekend where I know our conversations basically pushed her a little further to the door and toward the OM, I am back on the gameplan and still working hard. Been nice as pie and upbeat towards her today and she is back calling and messaging me. Might take some recovery time but Im hopeful that I can get back to making some progress again.
