I haven't answered any text this morning from him. He isn't happy about it and has started again on the " I must be with my bf" train of thought. I am thing not to answer back to defend myself. I did send him 1 text that a poster had suggested that said I wasn't seeing anyone right now and that we needed to stick with issues concerning the kids or our finances. I feel good about it even though he wasn't to happy with it and said that I was lying. I can't control how he feels so I am taking charge of my life.
Thanks to all those who read and post
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12