Been served papers - first hearing two weeks away

[LisaLost]

How are you today? Thanks again for stopping my my thread. I will tell you that my situation is different bc my husband is it seems a habitual cheater. But he was dead set determined to leave me in August 2005 and I did the usual begging and all that until about November 2005. I soon after found DB and started following the techniques and posting here for help before I did anything concerning my h. It worked. It was so painful but I did grow some and start a process of finding myself and changing things that I didn't like. That time changed me alot and I am glad it happened.

I am telling you this bc you don't need to give up hope. Follow the book and the advice you get here. It's not easy at all and it is heart breaking sometimes but keep your end goal in mind and focus on what you can do to show her that you love her and are serious about your marriage. That should help the loneliness and hurt you feel sometimes. Come here to post if you feel the need to call or text her. Let us help you. We all know how this feels.

I think you can do this. I may be off here but I would look at the fact that she offered you the basement is a good sign. She may be confused and not really know what she wants. Respect that and make the changes that you know you need to make. Do your 180s and GAL with yourself as your daughters.

Keep your head up and be positive. She will notice the changes.