Yes, thank you. I've known I need to set these boundaries, but am always afraid I will just go off on him. I want to say:


"When you stay over at "her" house house, I feel that it is disrespectful to me and our daughter. She is being affected by it and I won't live in an open marriage. If it continues, alternate living arrangments need to be made."

Not sure if that is "strong" enough.