If you aren't sure what to say, say nothing...just smile.
I'm sorry that your inlaws are treating you badly, but you don't know what she's told them. They will one day find out what is going on, but like the mlcer, they need to do this on their own...why? Because blood is thicker than water and they will side w/her right or wrong until they see the light.
Keep the focus on you and your little one.
Snod I don't know what I would do without you - your such a big help I don't say it often enough but thank you so much !!
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!